Mind In Middle

Ubwenge ntibugurwa, ubwenge ntibuguranwa, ubwenge ubuhabwa n'Imana. Ntihazagire umuntu ukubeshya ngo araguha umuti utuma ugira ubwenge, buri muntu wese afite ubwenge yavukanye. Abanyarwanda babizi neza kuko bavuga ngo ni "ugutyaza ubwenge" ntabwo ari ugushaka ubwenge. Buri muntu wese aba afite ubwenge yavukanye. Nta muti waguha ubwenge ahubwo icyo wakora ni ugukoresha ubwenge bwawe ntutegereze ko utekererezwa n'abandi. Ushobora kudakora neza mu itangira, ariko uko ubukoresha cyane ugenda ugira ubunararibonye. Ese ubona abo wita abanyabwenge bakurusha iki? Ntacyo. Ahubwo bo icyo bakora ni ukwigirira ikizere, kugerageza cyane kandi ntibacike intege. Ubundi uko bakoresha ubwenge bwabo cyane niko bagenda baba inararibonye.

"I love you," I told you. But, did you believe what I had just told you? How'd you know that I truly love if you can't know what's on my mind? I'm not asking you this because I don't love you. I just wanted to give you this small advise: "Love is about trust and have faith in someone. Because you can't know what they think, believe they really love you, don't doubt them, do your part. One sided love hurts, but you can't force someone to love you. If you did what you should, if you are showing your love, caring, calling, texting, but you don't get it back; don't push hard, get away. If they realize that you were important to them, they will come begging." Actually, love isn't only a feeling, it's also destruction weapon. If you love the wrong person, it may end up destroying you. Get away and find someone who deserve you. Because you are worth being loved by the best person alive.

A couple were asked, "how did you manage to stay together for 65 years?" And the woman replied, "we were born in a generation where when something was broken, we fix it. Not just throw it away!" And look at this generation, we even throw away fresh things we have just because we're tired of it. Because we have many choices, we don't realize how something or someone is valuable to us. We should learn how to appreciate everything we have, and make use use of it instead of breaking it up. We should focus more on strengthening what we already have and make it as the best as we want it. There is no perfect thing, no perfect person, no perfect time, so don't wait for it. Instead learn to appreciate what you have. Because you will never be satisfied. Tell me what you think!

I don't know what will happen to me tomorrow or the day after. Only I know what happening right now. And if that's the case, why the hell would I care about what will happen to me when I die. The reason we're here in the world, is to live, with happiness, joy and enjoy the short time we were given. But it really hurts me to even think about how some people spend their time hurting themselves thinking and planning about the day they will die, while they have already failed to plan for the next hour. What we do now, will affect us in future. That's KARMA and I believe in it. What you believe in won't reward you, but what you do will reward you fairly. Instead of spending your time praying, I think you should spend time doing charity activities, showing love and care, helping others and making the world even better. I'm not saying you shouldn't pray, but this should come supporting what you do. Tell me what you think!

Ese nk'ubu aka kanya ubonye 10000F wayakoresha iki? Benshi muri twe duhora turira ngo ubukene buratwishe, ngo amafaranga yarabuze, ngo uwampa n'10. Nyamara n'udufaranga duke tubonetse, ugasanga umuntu adupfusha ubusa. Hari indirimbo iba mu bantu "KWIKENURA." Ese kuva mu bukene ni ukumva ko ufite amafaranga menshi mu mifuka yawe? Cg kwikenura ni ugukoresha amafaranga ufite urwanya ubukene? Abantu baratangaje. * Iyo nta mafaranga, aravuga ati, "uwampa amafaranga, niyo yaba make nahita nsenzera ku bukene" * Yabona 10000, akavuga ati, "aya mafaranga ni make, nkeneye arenzeho" ayo agahita ayakoresha agashira. * Agakomeza ati ariko ndashaka kwikenura, akajya abona amafaranga akayaguramo ibyo akeka ko byihutirwa, kugeza igihe agera akavuga ati, "ubukene buranze buranyokamye" Ariko umuntu amenye kuzigama kuri duke afite, ntamenya uko byabaye byinshi. Ariko mu gihe umuntu abonye amafaranga, ntatuza. Ahita atekereza ibyo yifuza, ntarebe ibyihut...

Hari umuntu wigeze kuvuga ijambo, sinjye yaribwiraga ariko namwumvise arivuga ninyuriraho gusa, ariko ryangumye mu bitekerezo kandi riramfasha umunsi ku munsi. Yaravuz e ngo, "Ntuzigere na rimwe ugira ubwoba bwuko utazakira cyangwa uzaba umukene bitewe nuko ubona abantu bakuruta bageze kuri byinshi wowe utarageraho cg ngo utekereze ko utazigera ubigeraho. Kuko wabwirwa n'iki aho uzaba ugeze cg ibyo uzaba utunze igihe uzaba ungana na bo?" Nanjye nakubwira ko, ibyo ukora byose ntumenya uko amahirwe aza mu buzima. Hari igihe ukora cyane, ugakoresha imbaraga zawe ukabona nta gihinduka mu buzima bwawe. Ariko umunsi umwe, mu isegonda rimwe, ugahindurirwa ubuzima. Bya bindi byose ukora ubikunze nubwo bitaguhindurira ubuzima nonaha, hari igihe, umunsi n'isaha bizaguha byinshi kurusha ibyo wari witeze. Ntucike intege, ngo utakaze ikizere kuko igihe cyose ugifite ubuzima, ikizere kirahari.

Never leave friends who keep being by your side even when you are harsh towards them. They are truly your people. Those who understand you, love you, support you, invest in your time, give you advice; even when they know that you aren't grateful or won't return any of it. They know what you need, they want to keep you happy, they want you to be as bold as you could be. But you, because of some reasons I don't wanna know, you push them away, take their time for granted, and think they are useless meddling in your life. My friend, you're wrong. Finding a person who truly loves you and cares for you, is an exam many people haven't yet won. But it's still possible for you. Among all your friends, there are people like that who will never leave you hanging. If you be a good friend to them, they will reveal themselves. What are your thoughts on this? Consider sharing if you liked this message.